1 Minute Habit · #330
1 Minute Habit for November 26
Write down one boundary you will set for yourself today
Why This Habit Helps
Self-boundaries are the foundation of self-respect and prevent the resentment that comes from overcommitting or neglecting your own needs.
Setting clear boundaries teaches others how to treat you while creating essential space for your priorities, values, and well-being.
What You’ll Do in 1 Minute
- Prevents burnout and resentment
- Teaches others how to treat you
- Creates space for your priorities
- Builds self-trust and integrity
- Reduces stress from overcommitting
Quick Overview
Boundaries aren't walls that keep people out—they're the gates and fences that define where your garden ends and others' begin.
Writing down one specific boundary makes it concrete and actionable, transforming vague feelings of overwhelm into clear, respectful limits that honor your needs and capacities.
What the Research Says
How to Get Started
- Identify where you feel drained, resentful, or overwhelmed
- Write the boundary clearly: 'I will not...' or 'I need...'
- Make it specific and actionable for today
- Consider how you'll communicate it if needed
- Acknowledge this act of self-care and self-respect
How to Adapt This Habit
If you’re a busy professional
Set work-life boundaries like 'I will not check email after 7 PM' to prevent burnout and maintain personal time
If you’re a parent
Create boundaries around personal time like 'I need 15 minutes of quiet after the kids are in bed' to maintain identity beyond parenting
If you’re a student or learner
Establish study boundaries like 'I will take a real break every 90 minutes' to maintain focus and prevent exhaustion
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đź’¬ Your Success Stories
I was constantly saying yes to every request at work until I was working nights and weekends while my personal life suffered. When I started writing down one boundary each morning—'I will leave by 6 PM,' 'I won't take on others' emergencies'—everything changed. The first few times were uncomfortable, but soon colleagues respected my limits, and I discovered my work actually improved with proper rest. That simple act of writing boundaries gave me back my time and self-respect.
— Dr. Reynolds